“Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goals.” — Anonymous
Setting goals is easy. Sticking with goals is not.
But you can improve your changes big time by just doing a little different planning.
Whether it’s New Years Resolutions, mini-goals, SMART goals, or Big Bold Goals, you improve your chances of sticking with your goals if you create some effective If-Then plans.
Create If-Then Plans to Deal with Potential Setbacks and Challenges
When you pursue your goals, expect challenges. They happen. After all, you’re trying to make a change, and the value is in the change.
But don’t get discouraged.
Get prepared.
You can prepare for the challenges by doing some simple If-Then planning.
From Jihan Thompson in The Science of Success in O The Oprah Magazine:
“Ambitious plans are commendable (‘I’m going to lose 30 pounds this year!’), but they don’t account for inevitable roadblocks. If you want to have a fighting chance at sticking to your resolutions, you would do well to develop if-then plans: if someone brings cupcakes or pizza or candy to work, then I…. “
Your “Then” Determines Success or Failure
How should you answer the “Then” part of your “If-Then” plan?
That’s the key.
How you choose to answer what you will do for THEN, when the IF happens will determine your success or failure.
Via Jihan Thompson in The Science of Success in O The Oprah Magazine:
“And before you finish that thought, consider the results of a study from Utrecht University in the Netherlands. Researchers found that how you craft the second part of your statement can keep you on course or knock you off.“
Turn “Then” into Positive Actions
Don’t focus on what you “won’t” do. Focus on what you “will” do.
Figure out a positive response that you can do, some positive action, so you can better respond to the challenge.
From Jihan Thompson in The Science of Success in O The Oprah Magazine:
“Subjects who used a strategy of negation (if someone brings cupcakes, then I won’t have one) were more likely to give in to temptation than those who used more positive statements (if someone brings cupcakes, then I’ll treat myself to the hummus and crackers I keep stashes in the office fridge). Bottom line: Instead of focusing on what’s off limits, enjoy the things that are still fair game.”
Using If-Then planning and using positive actions also reminds me of how Navy Seals build mental toughness to reach their goals.
This also reminds me of the story of a friend where he tried to teach his son not to pick up knives. If he told his son, “don’t pick up the knife”, his son would still pick up the knife. If he said, “put the knife down”, then his son would put the knife down. It’s another reminder that our brains aren’t so good with “not”, as in do “not” pick up the knife.
If you want to stand a fighting chance of reaching your goals, do some If-Then planning and focus on positive actions you can actually do.
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